Our client asked us: I do not want to say my real name to a girl because she can find info about me on the internet. What to do
I do not want to say my real name to a girl because she can find info about me on the internet. What to do
I do not want to say my real name to a girl because she can find info about me on the internet. What to do
It’s understandable to be cautious about sharing personal information, especially in today’s digital age where privacy can be easily compromised. Here are some practical steps you can take:
## 1. Use a Nickname or Middle Name
You can introduce yourself using a nickname, your middle name, or a variation of your real name. Many people do this for privacy or personal reasons. Just make sure you’re comfortable with it and can remember to use it consistently.
## 2. Be Honest About Your Concerns
If you feel comfortable, you can explain to her that you value your privacy and prefer not to share your full name right away. Most reasonable people will understand and respect your boundaries, especially early on.
## 3. Limit Personal Details
Avoid sharing other identifying details (like your workplace, school, or hometown) until you feel more comfortable and trust her.
## 4. Get to Know Her First
Build trust gradually. As you get to know her better and feel more secure, you can choose to share more about yourself.
## 5. Consider Your Intentions
Think about why you’re meeting her and what you want from this connection. If you’re looking for a genuine relationship, eventually sharing your real name may be necessary for trust and honesty.
## 6. Be Prepared for Questions
She might ask why you’re not sharing your real name. Be ready with a polite and honest answer, such as:
*”I’ve had some privacy concerns in the past, so I’m just a bit careful about sharing personal info online. I hope you understand!”*
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**Remember:**
Your safety and comfort come first. Take things at your own pace, and don’t feel pressured to share more than you’re ready to. If someone reacts negatively to your boundaries, that’s a sign they may not respect your privacy in the future.
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